What A Girl Want: :

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Every girl is unique. Some grow up in pink dresses. Some grow up in ratty jeans. Some love horses, some love nail polish. Remember not to generalize about what your girl will want. The true key to love is to get to know your girl, find out what she loves about life, and then meet her needs. That is the basis of love - to be the puzzle piece that fits into her unique personality.

These tips can help you get started - but they are not the answer to every single love issue. Your girl has spent many years forming her personality. It would be an insult to say you could decipher it all in a few minutes! Take the time to be with her and learn about her. That is what true love is all about.

be romantic

Girls really want guys to make the first move. I know a lot of guys want girls to make the first move, but girls see that as unromantic. You don't need to be afraid of rejection. If she seems genuinely interested in you, then she probably is into you. If she isn't, she'll probably kind of talk to you, and then go back to talking to her friends.

If you think she does like you, then you should do something sweet and romantic. Give her a flower. Only one. That symbolizes that you two are united; like you're one person. And roses are prefferable, but if you are afraid of coming on too strong, then any flower is fine. But if you do give her a rose, either give her red or white. Definately pink or yellow, unless you know that she really likes pink or yellow roses. Every girl is different, so whatever you do, make it as personal as possible.

Fairy Tales and Being There

Girls are typically brought up on a diet of fairy tale stories. Look at just about every Disney story that exists. Girl is trapped in sad situation. Guy comes and rescues her. Happy ending. Even tomboys and tough girls probably saw these movies when they were young.

The key to all of the stories is that the guy was there for the girl. Even if there were harsh odds, the guy found a way to be there. Fairy tales are never easy - there is always some challenge. So show your girl you will stick by her side, even if it's rough, even if there are obstacles.

Girls Dont Really Know

This is a fact for almost all of them. Girls, not women i mean. They still are trying to discover themselves. So are guys, but guys do it on their own. Girls sometimes project onto guys and try to discover themselves by how the guy makes them feel. "I feel truly myself when he is around".

Also at the teen years to 21 stage, girls are rapped up in this fairy tale romantic stage. Guys dont really go through too much of that. They try to "play the game" but they care so much more about just being with her then what they do when they are. This means that often the girl only wants all the happiness, romance and gestures not realizing that the most important thing is for your boyfriend to be there for you.

Think about it. Girls get mad when their boyfriend doesnt act to romantic. Even going from friend to boyfriend is next to impossible with most girls if you dont do something romantic to show you care. Its not enough for you to just be there for them.

Also girls dont really know what they want so they try to get everything out of their boyfriend. Take this example. You and some girl are at a bar or a club or at school. She looks over at two guys. She sees the kind, not so hot guy, confident with a sensitive soul. She claims aloud that he is her type. She looks at the other guy who is hot but a little shallow. Who she claims is not her type. The next day you ask who she hooked up with. Its not the confident, sensitive, guy. No. Instead its the hot arragant shallow one. She chose him because she wants to bring out the other guys traits in this one so she can have it all.

In short most girls at this age dont know what they want, want it all, or are still trapped in their little fantasy reality that they wanted since they were six that they can now experience and blind themselves to what they need in addition to romance. The problem is that true love is more than just about the first stages of romance. That is why most girls dump the guy when he stops being so romantic as they go on later in a relationship. As you progress in love there is less romance, more commitment and intimacy. But most girls see this as the "spark" is missing. That spark of romance is all they care about at that stage. Until they discover what is important down the road of love they dont really know what they want until THEY GROW UP EMOTIONALLY.

But the ones who have need this:
Honesty
Caring
Being there for them through the good and the bad
You to stand by their side
You making an effort in romance to never let the flame die down to much later on.
Politeness
For you NOT to be jealous

KEY THING IS TO LISTEN AND REMEMBER

ALOT OF TIMES GIRLS REALLY NEED A FRIEND IN A RELATIONSHIP, IF U CAN B A FRIEND AND A LOVER WITH HER THE RELATIONSHIP IS GOLDEN, ALWAYS LISTEN TO HER CONVERSATIONS REMEMBER WHAT SHE SAYS AND WHAT SHE HATES AND DATES THAT R IMPORTANT TO HER IT MIGHT NOT LOOK LIKE ALOT BUT IT MEANS ALOT TO HER!!!